Ah..that life that once I had…waking up late (o..k fine, i still wake up late) but other things have changed…friends used to be in my life like all the time…solving problems..like I was the guru in all subjects..(except maths)..anybody in trouble…you don’t need to ask me I will be there….ever ready for those Saturday parties..those late house parties..
slowly things started to change after marriage..and more after I had my baby..life has started revolving around the house ..this is my priority..house ..kitchen ..taking care of Adi(my boy). parties and other things are things of past..not that I miss them too much..but yes..sometimes..that carefree life I had..now If at all ..I have to leave home there are thousands things that I need to think..and then I have to choose a place which will be children free..friends ..ya..we say hi in whatsapp now and then..and some of them also call me when they have trouble with kids ..so actually I am still a guru but the topics have changed ..its more like how is your kid eating??..is he potty trained?? when are enrolling him to school??
sometimes..I feel tied up and feel I am loosing friends ..but then this thought just goes when I see Adi..smiling or trying to talk..no..no its not a compromise..its life..you cannot be in the same place all the time..the role changes..the time changes and all for good..you just need to imbibe and enjoy..