He asked you your hand and you gave it..He promised you he will take care of you for the rest of your life and you believed it..
But time never remains same..things change and now you are in a position you cannot recognise yourself anymore..you regret the day you gave in everything for him…
You thought life will be forever hand in hand and same song in the heart ..but things are no longer same, they have changed. You hardly talk, you hate to be together, sharing the same bed.
God! What did you do to yourself, you have no friends, you have given up your job. Your life stands there staring at you…Now what??
You hardly talk to your mom, it was all good as long as you were cooing in love, you let him decide your friends, you let him give opinions on your relationships and relatives but now everyone one is gone.
Your life was so occupied, you never met people outside and now you can’t stand that loneliness anymore..
You hate all the luxury you are surrounded with..
You took the love over everything, you let him choose what you need and now you no more know what you want.
That man chose to drive you and you never learnt to drive and now you cannot go out without him.
That man chose to pay for your shopping and you never learnt to earn for yourself.
But now what..you can’t even talk to him and you can’t ask him..you are helpless so helpless.
Man should empower you not make you dependent. Man should help you to find who you are not turn you into something. He should love you and accept your differences, he should not change you for his comfort. He should not make you representable, he should be proud of you the way you are.
Find that man!!
I had originally written this article for mycity4kids